Allowing Him to meet your need for security and significance diminishes your motivation to attack or manipulate someone else. Many singles have been demoralized by dating an immature person. Thanks for your understanding comment. No known relation to spiritual or temporal reality. Remember that dating is a prelude to marriage, and marriage is a commitment to an imperfect person for his or her highest good. Also known as BGF.
Sometimes, neither person is wrong.
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Does he or she encourage you to meet new people, try new hobbies, and maintain your faith in God? That is where he comes from. If nothing improves, you may need to end your relationship. I never experienced this kind of intimacy with my first wife. My concern was never about what my parents would think.