There is also that folk become ill or tired, but given support they'll eventually come through. I just wanted to say, "you're not alone" You have work to do and what a great work it is. Is there any one who could take the children for a half day so you can have the time together? The how to's are not a secret. Yesterday I started work at in the morning so I was up at 5am.
You sound like a really kind and caring person who really is unsure what the best thing to do is.
It is great you have started this thread, many will benefit. She minimised the fact that we have virtually no sex life, saying it has been due to the pregnancy and the birth, although it has been going on a lot longer than that. He works every day, inside and outside the house, for the life his family deserves. I appreciate your support and advice. I kind of felt used because I felt like I was doing something for someone else all day.