Looking back, I think if someone is active on an online dating site, while he is dating you, he is probably a player. Temporarily disable your profile and make a decision to stop tracking his online activity. I completely agree that if someone is still checking dating sites after committing to someone then they are leaving options open,stroking their ego,or seeing you as for now person Its disrespectful and breaks trust not builds it. He already has pictures of me, I have sent by phone and I asked him that he had been online, he said it was because he was checking whether I had been online, I have left it a week and sure enough he has been online in the last 24 hours. Im really falling for this guy and I never ever pressure him on anything cause i know men dont like to be pressured so i kind of take each day as it comes. Just recently went through this on another site.
Then he said he may not get to his computer much to message me!.
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You will never, ever know what the other person is doing at all times. There is no reason for him to be on this site. Now I not only wasted a year but have spent six months trying to recover emotionally and am going back into the dating scene with less trust. I decided to still give him the benefit of the doubt. I thought wow he really is an honest guy, what a catch! As such, some of the comments which I have preserved bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision. Cookie and Privacy Settings.